March 10

Who you are

You love with almost no gap between yourself and the other person. Their bad news becomes your bad news the same afternoon. Pisces dissolves the line most people keep between their own life and the lives around them, and in you that line was never especially firm to begin with. It makes you a rare kind of friend and a slightly exhausting one.

Warmth is your method for nearly everything. You solve a problem by getting closer to it, feeding someone, sitting on their floor, staying past the point where the conversation is comfortable. The Water in your chart is not gentle so much as total. People warm up around you, tell you more than they meant to, and end up belonging to you.

Your gifts

• Depth of loyalty. What you commit to, you commit to completely and with no review date.
• Warmth as method. You fix things by getting closer, and often that is exactly what was needed.
• Nothing wasted. You remember small kindnesses that the people who did them have forgotten.

Your shadow

All in love has no dial. You attach quickly and cannot separate cleanly, so a friendship that has gone wrong takes years to end and leaves a mark on everything nearby. You read another person's mood as a verdict on you. When someone needs distance you hear it as loss, and you press closer at exactly the moment to step back.

Your soul work

Choose before you commit. Decide deliberately who gets that much of you, because afterwards you will not be able to take it back in halves. Love as completely as you like. Just do it on purpose, and leave the other person enough room to breathe in.

Days you get along with

Your sign

The twelfth sign swims in both directions at once: boundless feeling, porous edges. Pisces carries the ocean, and the lesson of the riverbank.

Someone else

Look up another birthday

Check a friend's day, or your partner's, and send it to them.