March 7

Who you are

You keep people. Friends from school, a first employer, someone you fell out with a decade ago and still ask after. Continuity matters to you more than almost anything, and breaking a connection feels less like a decision than an injury. Pisces gives you the attachment. Jupiter gives you the generosity to keep extending it long after the other person has stopped.

There is a fineness to how you handle people. You remember what somebody is anxious about and you do not raise it in front of others. You notice when a friend has gone slightly quiet. Nobody trained you in this and no one thanks you for it directly, but look at who is still in your life after twenty years and that is the thanks.

Your gifts

• Long attention. You track the people you love across years rather than conversations.
• Careful handling. You know what to say in front of a group and what to save for later.
• Reliability. When you say you will be there, the matter is closed.

Your shadow

Loyalty stops being a virtue when it is really a fear of endings. You stay in the job, the friendship, the arrangement that stopped working, because ending it would mean admitting you were wrong to begin with. So you drag it along, half present, for years. That is not devotion. It is a slow leak, and everyone involved can feel it.

Your soul work

Your work is learning that a clean ending is not a betrayal. Choose your endings deliberately, say them out loud, and let the person hear the reason from you rather than guess at it. What you keep afterwards is worth more, because it stayed by choice.

Days you get along with

Your sign

The twelfth sign swims in both directions at once: boundless feeling, porous edges. Pisces carries the ocean, and the lesson of the riverbank.

Someone else

Look up another birthday

Check a friend's day, or your partner's, and send it to them.